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  • How single parenthood by choice both challenges and reinforces social stigma

    How single parenthood by choice both challenges and reinforces social stigma

    This critical analysis paper was submitted for my Principles of Sociology class in May 2026 In exploring the challenge of arriving at an operational definition of the term ‘single parent’, the 6th edition of Elements of Sociology by John Steckley (2023) offers nine examples to illustrate what a single parent family might look like (p.… Read more

  • To medicate or…

    To medicate or…

    Over the years, I have had a complex relationship to medication. Specifically to the types of medication that are intended to reduce the effects of depression and anxiety. Now as a student of psychology, I have more information about the science behind medication and other ways to treat depression and anxiety, but still no clear… Read more

  • Sandy Hill Life Drawing:                “On Wednesdays I draw naked people.”

    Sandy Hill Life Drawing: “On Wednesdays I draw naked people.”

    Written by Bhoomi Dahiya for The Fulcrum; originally published May 4 2026 WHEN I TELL PEOPLE I’M GOING TO DRAW NUDE MODELS, THEY’RE USUALLY A BIT TAKEN ABACK In a culture where bodies are constantly scrutinized, sexualized, and shamed, the artistic practice of life drawing can sound terrifying even when you’re not the one posing.… Read more

  • Losing an alloparent to suicide: a case study

    Losing an alloparent to suicide: a case study

    The Impact of Trauma on Secure Attachment in Young Children: A case study involving the sudden death by suicide of an alloparent Submitted for PSY 2105 D Child Development, University of Ottawa, Fall 2024 Parts 1 & 2 : My Topic for the Paper & My Theories of Knowledge For this assignment, I am choosing… Read more

  • Queer Dating: Part 2

    Queer Dating: Part 2

    I’m going to say something mildly controversial. About parenting. And dating. Oh boy. Here we go. I have no problem introducing my daughter to the people I’m dating. Now I know parents have all sorts of rules about this. They want to wait for a certain amount of time (say, six months) before introducing a… Read more

  • Queer Dating: Part 1

    Queer Dating: Part 1

    I wrote this in November 2019, two months before my child was born. Almost five years later, I’m still exploring different types of relationships and figuring out what makes the most sense for me (and my child). It can require a lot of energy and processing, and if I’m dating someone who’s not invested as… Read more